Navigating Family Life: The Dangers of Arrogance in Women

Modern society has introduced new norms. While all these norms may seem very fair, an unseen aspect of human society needs to be understood. To grasp this aspect, human society must comprehend the principles of nature.

A man can never fully understand a woman, and a woman cannot fully understand a man. Both genders primarily perceive each other based on surface appearances.

Nature has agreed to prioritise males when creating species. This is a point that should be regarded with caution. Otherwise, modern society will understand you as a social and female antagonist. However, this way of thinking does not benefit society or women.

The current status of males in essential society has become highly socialised. In this context, both men and women have found equality. This is a very fair state, but it is fair only for the broader society. In personal life, this exists according to natural principles.

No matter how cultured we attempt to be as humans, it is difficult to change the animalistic traits within us. If we try to change them, society will face further destruction.

According to the animalistic instincts of men, they believe they should protect women. This is because, by their strength, they are naturally positioned as protectors.

This notion makes women very secure in a modern, complex society. The security a woman has within society exists on various levels. However, in personal life, this condition depends on men. That is why men are always seen as the protectors of the family.

The Definition of Arrogance in Family Dynamics

However, the equality within the women’s community changes when it enters the private household. In the past, this was not a complicated matter. Men and women clearly understood their responsibilities.

Within the family, men and women understood well what roles each was expected to fulfil. These roles were not a result of discussions but were inherently determined.

What kind of condition is perceived when a man looks at a woman? Generally, a man with an average mindset always expects a delicate woman. Here, often, men hope for younger and smaller, more delicate women compared to themselves. Conversely, men do not show much preference for women who are large and robust.

Typically, these situations are heavily considered in arranged marriages. However, men and women behave differently in marriages arising from love relationships. In such instances, due to the bond formed from love and affection, compatibility is not as much scrutinised. Nevertheless, no man is likely to prefer a dominative woman.

How Arrogance Leads to Conflict in Relationships

Dominant women often fail in their married lives and even in relationships with their relatives. Their most significant failures in marriage and life occur when they lack emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing with those around them.

They enter an egoistic trap with their husbands, wherein the husband tends to give more attention to his ego than hers, leading to their failure to manage their egos against their surroundings.

As previously mentioned, men find themselves dominated by a submissive wife or sister, while they tend to be softer with submissive women. In this situation, family life becomes manageable, with conflicts arising minimally.

A strong-minded woman believes that she can succeed by imposing her views and that any opposing argument can be countered. However, even if she achieves success through her adherence to her opinions and stances, she often forgets that she lost the love and care she received. The problems that arise in a household governed by a dominating woman can be understood mainly by the men living in those homes.

In all cultures, there are many tales and wise advice that praise a gentle, friendly, patient, and understanding woman. Such a woman respects her husband and speaks softly and wisely, and he loves her and will never leave her.

A woman who allows her husband to lead and supports him is intelligent and logical, bringing prosperity and unity to the family. On the other hand, a woman who stands rigidly like a dry stick suffers irreparable harm.

The Impact of Women’s Arrogance on Parenting and Children

A woman devoid of consensus clings to her opinions. She constantly tries to sustain the illusion of her victory: “I win, you lose; I am right, you are wrong.” Such a woman destroys herself before she destroys others.

Additionally, she lives a troubled and painful life in this world and the next. The behaviour of such women often leads to unnecessary arguments, especially when they have no substantial points to debate but still strive to win.

In this situation, a wise man will allow her to win and then walk away, and the woman will think she has triumphed. However, not all men act this way.

I have observed that marriages of such women often end in divorce. They are severely unsuccessful in their family and social lives. Ultimately, she destroys her own family and her husband’s siblings.

An Arab woman’s advice to her daughter on her wedding day is considered one of the best guidance from all successful women. She said this:

“Be his support… inevitably, he will become your closest ally.”

“Men are generous and compassionate, but a dominant, foolish woman turns them into adversaries.”In other words, a woman’s dominance can overwhelm a man tenfold.

Well, in today’s context of feminism and women’s empowerment, it seems that young women are severely impacted by impatience and ego regarding their relationships with their partners or companions.

They are unwilling to work on their inherent shortcomings and feel that the man should adapt to their naivety. Any woman wishing to make her marriage successful should self-reflect on the issues mentioned above.

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